I had all this apart in my own car in the Spring, including having the whole motor apart, giving it a good clean-up and checking the state of the brushes, and I don't remember there being any relays - nor would I expect there to be a relay on such a low current application. And you can't hear one operating, either - at least, not on my car.
A short somewhere seems likeliest at the present stage of the investigation. I commend the idea of unplugging the motor and seeing whether the action of the microswitch itself blows the fuse. (Better get a 10-pack in...)
Obviously the motor and linkage must be OK in themselves, or the system would not work properly when triggered by the switch inside the car.
I am away at the moment but back in Northallerton on Friday and then around over Christmas. If it helps, I'll come over with mine at some point - you're only just down the road, and it may help to have another apparently similar car to compare with.